Every parent loves their child and everyone raises their children as they see fit. Some children are more obedient while others are more agitated.
Education must come first from the parents, they have the responsibility to teach the child what is good and what is bad.
An overly spoiled child can become a problem for those around him. A child needs to know what the word “NO” means. He needs to know what the limits are and how to behave, both at home, in kindergarten, at school or in a public space.
If a parent does not pay enough attention to the child, does not educate him, then that child will have behavioral problems.
Or if a parent spoils his child too much, allows him to do absolutely everything he wants, without explaining to him what is good and what is bad, the child will end up having behavior problems.
In the video below captured by surveillance cameras in a supermarket, we can see a very interesting scene.
A child is waiting in line with his mother at a supermarket. In front of them, in the queue, is a man. The child has a shopping cart and starts hitting the man in front of him. The mother looks indifferent. After being hit several times, the man seeing that the child’s mother does not take any action, decides to do something out of the ordinary.
He takes a box of milk from the boy’s cart, opens it and pours it all over the child’s head.
The child starts to cry, and the mother takes his hand and leaves the supermarket with him immediately.
After the video was made public, opinions were divided.
We have several types of reactions:
1. The man is right. She waited for the child’s mother to intervene and calm her child. If he saw that the woman ignored the whole situation, he decided to give a lesson to the spoiled child.
2. The child’s mother is to blame because she did not educate her child and did not teach him how to behave in public spaces. She had to take immediate action when she saw the child hit the man with the cart.
3. Both the man and the woman are to blame. The child’s mother had to intervene immediately. The man had no right to pour the box of milk on the child’s head, even if it was naughty.
What do you think? Who is to blame?