Adam divorced after many beautiful years of marriage. Recently, he wrote a letter that opens the eyes of anyone who reads it – it is addressed to anyone who will be the future lover of his ex. After reading it, I really agree with him.
Here is what it says:
“For the one who will love her next,
She’s scared of spiders. So when you’re in town with friends and texting you that she can’t sleep because there’s a spider on the bedroom window, please go and kill it otherwise she won’t sleep at all.
She is an introvert who enjoys reading. She won’t answer for hours and sometimes you may not see her face for a whole week. So you’re going to take it personally and you’re going to get hurt. Do not do it. She just takes care of herself and will tell you that she missed you while you didn’t see each other.
She will be very jealous. God, she’s so jealous! Those brown eyes will turn deep green. She hates this about her and doesn’t do it on purpose. Remember, she actually loves you. Reassure her that you love her too. Speaking of which, she needs to tell you this more often. Tell her you love her and be serious. If you can’t do that then give it up, it’s worth more than that.
There will be nights when she goes out and drinks a little too much. She’ll call you to bring her home. She will try to keep you awake all night by tickling you and repeating to you that she loves you and apologizing for being annoying. It’s not annoying. But make sure she has enough water to drink and don’t let her faint from drunkenness until she drinks it all, otherwise she’ll be sick the next morning.
She is one of the most independent women I know but she is quite insecure about it and that still breaks my heart. So when an argument starts with the reply “You don’t love me”, don’t be upset. She’ll recover.
Her cat comes first. Always. Never think otherwise.
Make her tea and remember how she likes coffee. You will always notice this.
When she has a panic attack, take her in your arms and pat her on the back. Tell her she’s safe and remind her she has medication if she needs it.
If you can’t treat her like a queen, leave her alone, and let someone else do it. This woman deserves the best in the world.
Losing it will be a pain that you will hardly get rid of or maybe not at all. Your world will collapse and the remaining pieces will no longer work as they used to. Don’t let her get away with it.
She will love you with all her being. Please give her the same thing.
I beg you not to hurt her. It’s pure gold. Don’t let that glow perish. Give her your best and she will do the same for you. You will never have any desire in life again, you will see.
From a Name, you will hear in passing. ”
I thought these words were really important and I know that not everyone will agree with him, but the love he has in him really shines through what he wrote. I hope this letter inspires you to show your appreciation for your partner today and not just with a simple gesture of love.