A woman had to endure great changes and challenges after her husband left her when she was 7 months pregnant.
Now she is looking for help on the internet, on an online forum, her question is this: what to do now, when her husband returned, 4 years after the moment when she needed him most, and he is trying to re-enter her life and meet his child.
The man had completely disappeared and even the divorce process was extremely difficult because she could not find him to sign the documents.
For 4 years no one knew about him, never visited them, and did not pay alimony.
Now the woman is in a state of confusion because her husband has started calling her again, he says he wants to meet his children, he even wants custody, saying that he wants to be their father again.
Her dilemma is that she doesn’t know if she should encourage this behavior, but at the same time she doesn’t want to stop her children from having a relationship with their father, although she is very skeptical about the man’s motives and doesn’t think she can trust him.
What advice would you give this woman?